Ever wondered over the fact why rich people are depressed? Why,u thought only the poor feel miserable eh? Ha,there you go wrong..Because it is common sense to understand that the poor are miserable but even the well-heeled are depressed..! Lets think of an answer..Can u think of something? Well a/c 2 me the only evident answer is DESIRE FOR MORE..!! Dont u think everything falls in place after seeing that answer?
Desire For More-Yes,that is the answer... No second thoughts on that...!
Can anyone ever have enough of anything? Look at me,putting on oodles of kilos but can never have enough of ice-cream..Ah,ice-cream...!! [:)]
Life is generally divided into 3 parts..
The PAST - which is no longer there....
The PRESENT - which we ruin by thinking of the future
&
The FUTURE - of which no one is sure of...!!
Come to think of it,its only the present that we have with us which is completely in our hands and we decide how to make the most of it...Lets enjoy it completely,live life as though its the last best thing..[;)]
Thinking, grieving, sulking, worrying would do you no good..!! I strongly believe in the fact that THINKING is unreal,now thats what i call a bald statement...[:)]
Saturday, December 8, 2007
Guilt Pangs...
I dont know whether its a misconception or not but its always noticed that women harbour feelings of guilt !! Consider me,why do i feel that im responsible for everything to be right?(also for everything to be wrong).Like all emotions associated with women-GUILT is the one constant emotion.Be it your professional life or be it personal compromise-u cant escape its pointed jibes!! Every woman feels guilty at times.Be it a daughter,a mother,a lover,a worker-EVERY ONE..!!
Come to think of myself I seriously sometimes brood-what good have i been at? NOTHING? Yeh,u guessed it right..[:D] I have been a guilty daughter-never tried to understand my parents and my responsibilities of being the eldest! I have been a guilty lover-maybe im responsible for failing relationships! I cannot compromise on my expectations from my partner,expectations hurt-i know they do,ive already written a post on that.Somehow i think that your individual success depends on external factors like successful relationships..!! I have been a guilty friend-dint think how important it was to show love and concern for ur best friend,thought she would foresee my feelings for her! Huh,how wrong i was..!! I have been a guilty student?(I know all of us are)-I tend to loose track of what im studying and how am i supposed to prove my worth bein an above-avg student..!
GUILTY-GUILTY-GUILTY-thats what the judge's verdict is! I know there are so many things which i cannot do and i say so! Think of it the positive way-If you have made a choice,there is no point feeling guilty about it.If you are committed to what you are doing then guilt should have no place in your life..!!
Come on ya-Im no SuperWoman,,! Cant really manage everything without going wrong! Making a pact with guilt seems to be the solution here. In the end i must say that relationships and guilt go hand in hand
Come to think of myself I seriously sometimes brood-what good have i been at? NOTHING? Yeh,u guessed it right..[:D] I have been a guilty daughter-never tried to understand my parents and my responsibilities of being the eldest! I have been a guilty lover-maybe im responsible for failing relationships! I cannot compromise on my expectations from my partner,expectations hurt-i know they do,ive already written a post on that.Somehow i think that your individual success depends on external factors like successful relationships..!! I have been a guilty friend-dint think how important it was to show love and concern for ur best friend,thought she would foresee my feelings for her! Huh,how wrong i was..!! I have been a guilty student?(I know all of us are)-I tend to loose track of what im studying and how am i supposed to prove my worth bein an above-avg student..!
GUILTY-GUILTY-GUILTY-thats what the judge's verdict is! I know there are so many things which i cannot do and i say so! Think of it the positive way-If you have made a choice,there is no point feeling guilty about it.If you are committed to what you are doing then guilt should have no place in your life..!!
Come on ya-Im no SuperWoman,,! Cant really manage everything without going wrong! Making a pact with guilt seems to be the solution here. In the end i must say that relationships and guilt go hand in hand
Xpectations...
Expectations hurt-Yes,they do ! The most common phenomenon is that when one loves one expects.Giving love leaves us with a purely human need to receive something in return. Expectations. What do we ultimately have when we have expectations? We just take ourselves for granted and live in the constant fear that this is all that i can give,You start feeling that something you are giving has no value.
How many expectations do we have once we offer love? As humans we can become upset,angry,confused,resentful,frustrated and the list of emotions will be endless but do we stop expecting? We create our own reality so why does the word expectation still linger? The state of acceptance is the only state that tells you that things will happen only according to what HE wants.We are often yoo busy dwelling on the negative aspects while disregarding the positive.Who are we to judge the decisions taken by HIM million years ago? Sounds like a never ending debate but yes that is what the question will remain-What is a person supposed to do when he expects? Leave everything to HIM & pray OR continue expecting???
How many expectations do we have once we offer love? As humans we can become upset,angry,confused,resentful,frustrated and the list of emotions will be endless but do we stop expecting? We create our own reality so why does the word expectation still linger? The state of acceptance is the only state that tells you that things will happen only according to what HE wants.We are often yoo busy dwelling on the negative aspects while disregarding the positive.Who are we to judge the decisions taken by HIM million years ago? Sounds like a never ending debate but yes that is what the question will remain-What is a person supposed to do when he expects? Leave everything to HIM & pray OR continue expecting???
Destiny....
Destiny-Heard someone saying 'I dont know what to do?Its just destiny!' How many times has something happened,something we cannot really control? How close have u tried to understand the word 'destiny'?
U'r confused,you sometimes think that destiny does exist and sometimes you say its a prank played by destiny on us.Enjoy the present and live life to the fullest-that goes for people who think there is no past and no future.
Can knowing our destiny really change it? Destiny has loads in store for us,how many of us just leave everything to destiny? Or are you among those who believe that their life is in their hands?To them life is just the consequences of choices,choices-made by them..Everyone is entitled to their own point of view.No perception is right or wrong.I myself believe that life is full of decisions and choices,you can run away from your destiny but you can never hide....!!
U'r confused,you sometimes think that destiny does exist and sometimes you say its a prank played by destiny on us.Enjoy the present and live life to the fullest-that goes for people who think there is no past and no future.
Can knowing our destiny really change it? Destiny has loads in store for us,how many of us just leave everything to destiny? Or are you among those who believe that their life is in their hands?To them life is just the consequences of choices,choices-made by them..Everyone is entitled to their own point of view.No perception is right or wrong.I myself believe that life is full of decisions and choices,you can run away from your destiny but you can never hide....!!
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